Well, well. I have failed in this 30 days challenge. Nobody intended to fail, but most people fail to plan and eventually failed.
Things happen for a reason however never let things happen on its own without even trying to make the best of everything we have and we want to have.
Every little thing that has come to my life is a blessing. The smallest thing eventually lead me to realize that sometimes in life, we might lose the biggest thing we have when we ignore those small things.
The 5 blessings in my life are
to be me, myself,
to have such a supporting, dedicated and loving parents and family,
to have beautiful,brilliant and healthy children,
to have a career that has been one of my ambitions and....
to great friends around me.
My world might not look perfect to you but it is just right and perfect to me. Of course there are so much more than the 5 mentioned. Every day is a blessing to me. When I had a bad day at work, sometime I would feel unhappy.
I will be angry if my children do not want to listen to me, but I know that they are still small, energetic, very young and 'green'. That is pretty obvious. If I were to scold them every now and then, I will lost the moment seeing their happy smiles, contagious laughter and cute action gestures. So I will choose other way to 'tame' them.
Life is precious and every day is a new day for me to do things right. I am really blessed to have all the above things. They are the reason why I am still insane and happy in this world.
What about you? Share the you story with me.
Wednesday, 31 August 2016
Monday, 22 August 2016
Something that you always think, "What if . . ." about.
If only I could turn back time, I would choose things differently. I will choose the road not taken by me. The present is not for me to regret, it is more of how I regretted for not doing things the other way around.
My post is late. Totally beyond the expected day. (As I was thinking and typing this, I saw a pair of scissors in my son's hand....OMG! NOOOOO!!! S l o w l y took it from his hands. It is safe, for now)
"What if..." I forgot how did I come up with this topic because I now feel that this word should not exist in my vocabulary at the first place. (In certain occasion... of course)
"What if I am able to complete my Works or TASKS at a very fast pace. Fast! That would be awesome! I can finish all tasks in school right on time so that I will have more time to spend with my love ones...Now, he is standing in front of me, blocking my way to look at the screen and the keyboard.....icwyr1236r2btr3y2uo328437 ..ok thanks for the extraordinary language. T_T
Yup. That is what I would want to have. The skills and ability to manage my activities so it will help me to have a more balance time between my life and my career. Help, my face...he is pinching my face. Still standing strong in front of me.
I always tell myself to be calm and cool whenever I am given a new task, whenever a student of mine made bad comments about the school and me, talking at the back of the class, raising his voice when replying to my question or instruction and etc. What if I don't have the patience to be patient? Hmtm, I wouldn't dare to think about that.
What about you? Share your thoughts about this topic too.
My post is late. Totally beyond the expected day. (As I was thinking and typing this, I saw a pair of scissors in my son's hand....OMG! NOOOOO!!! S l o w l y took it from his hands. It is safe, for now)
"What if..." I forgot how did I come up with this topic because I now feel that this word should not exist in my vocabulary at the first place. (In certain occasion... of course)
"What if I am able to complete my Works or TASKS at a very fast pace. Fast! That would be awesome! I can finish all tasks in school right on time so that I will have more time to spend with my love ones...Now, he is standing in front of me, blocking my way to look at the screen and the keyboard.....icwyr1236r2btr3y2uo328437 ..ok thanks for the extraordinary language. T_T
Yup. That is what I would want to have. The skills and ability to manage my activities so it will help me to have a more balance time between my life and my career. Help, my face...he is pinching my face. Still standing strong in front of me.
I always tell myself to be calm and cool whenever I am given a new task, whenever a student of mine made bad comments about the school and me, talking at the back of the class, raising his voice when replying to my question or instruction and etc. What if I don't have the patience to be patient? Hmtm, I wouldn't dare to think about that.
What about you? Share your thoughts about this topic too.
Monday, 8 August 2016
Choose one word of wisdom that influences your life and how
That one word is most probably starts with C.
Hi there. How are you feeling today?
The word is Courage.
(Please don't mention one cartoon which has this as the name of the animal character- this entry has no connection or whatsoever of that particular cartoon).
For me, to achieve something that I want is to have the courage to do so.
To dream about something and to plan of pursuing it, one needs a courage.
Not every body has it and not every one could hold to it; permanently.
I always tell myself, once I have started something, I need to complete it. By hook or by crook.
I never remember to be someone who is afraid of any thing. (Not that I am boasting, but like I said, I never remember...)
I never stop challenging myself to improve for a better me. Yes, flaws and mistakes- been there, done that. However, they never succeeded to stop me or made me to make a U-turn in my life.They just made me to reflect what I should have done and what made me to opt for the other choice.
Courage is something that one needs in life because life is not a bed of roses (as cliche as it is, that is fact, the truth). I can never satisfy others expectations and neither they can do that for me. I belief our existence is to complete each other, not to step or belittle others. To admit something, you need a courage to do it too. It is not easy, but you have to when the situation is crucial.
Basically, the courage that I have is one of the gifts given by the Al Mighty Creator. He never leave His servants alone. He is always there, it is just me who needs to ask for His guidance and everlasting love. Asks, and He will give what I need and not what I want.
What about you? Have thought about the one word of wisdom that influences your life?
Share it!
Hi there. How are you feeling today?
The word is Courage.
(Please don't mention one cartoon which has this as the name of the animal character- this entry has no connection or whatsoever of that particular cartoon).
For me, to achieve something that I want is to have the courage to do so.
To dream about something and to plan of pursuing it, one needs a courage.
Not every body has it and not every one could hold to it; permanently.
I always tell myself, once I have started something, I need to complete it. By hook or by crook.
I never remember to be someone who is afraid of any thing. (Not that I am boasting, but like I said, I never remember...)
I never stop challenging myself to improve for a better me. Yes, flaws and mistakes- been there, done that. However, they never succeeded to stop me or made me to make a U-turn in my life.They just made me to reflect what I should have done and what made me to opt for the other choice.
Courage is something that one needs in life because life is not a bed of roses (as cliche as it is, that is fact, the truth). I can never satisfy others expectations and neither they can do that for me. I belief our existence is to complete each other, not to step or belittle others. To admit something, you need a courage to do it too. It is not easy, but you have to when the situation is crucial.
Basically, the courage that I have is one of the gifts given by the Al Mighty Creator. He never leave His servants alone. He is always there, it is just me who needs to ask for His guidance and everlasting love. Asks, and He will give what I need and not what I want.
What about you? Have thought about the one word of wisdom that influences your life?
Share it!
Share something that you struggle with.
Hi again! (Am I doing a marathon entries again? Ayayaya)
Struggle with. Something that I am struggling with. Actually I have a number of somethings. Well, anyway let me choose one, the easiest for you to understand.
Firstly, life is full with events; the unexpected and of course the expected ones.
(Now listening to Blank Space by Taylor Swift)
I have recovered myself from one worst case scenarios that I bet nobody could recover within 2 weeks time (it was a 2012 history). I am proud to say that, the struggle that I went through has made me who I am now. I am stronger to face any obstacles as long as it is not death.
Okay, let go back to the post. I am struggling with MANAGEMENT. I feel that I am weak in managing things. I am always ready to improve myself in any ways, but the only thing that really makes my plan looks like unplanned is my management. In any things.. be it time, works, schedule, children, home chores, etc. I am not saying that I am no good in planning, but in managing things.
So, I have tried my best to work things out, slowly but surely. I have practiced to do things at the right pace. I am quite happy with my progress but hey, there is still a room for improvement!
As long as I never give up, and keep on managing things that need to be cater. I will be just fine!
What about you?
Struggle with. Something that I am struggling with. Actually I have a number of somethings. Well, anyway let me choose one, the easiest for you to understand.
Firstly, life is full with events; the unexpected and of course the expected ones.
(Now listening to Blank Space by Taylor Swift)
I have recovered myself from one worst case scenarios that I bet nobody could recover within 2 weeks time (it was a 2012 history). I am proud to say that, the struggle that I went through has made me who I am now. I am stronger to face any obstacles as long as it is not death.
Okay, let go back to the post. I am struggling with MANAGEMENT. I feel that I am weak in managing things. I am always ready to improve myself in any ways, but the only thing that really makes my plan looks like unplanned is my management. In any things.. be it time, works, schedule, children, home chores, etc. I am not saying that I am no good in planning, but in managing things.
So, I have tried my best to work things out, slowly but surely. I have practiced to do things at the right pace. I am quite happy with my progress but hey, there is still a room for improvement!
As long as I never give up, and keep on managing things that need to be cater. I will be just fine!
What about you?
List the 10 songs that you are in love now
Hi there. Thank you for reading this entry. I will list the 10 songs that I'm in love now.
To me, a song is universal.
I love listening to songs especially songs that will boost my energy and make me think positively or make me to realize that I am the one who takes control of my life. I like to choose what songs that I want to listen to when I am in my car (that is another reason why I don't switch on the radio when I have companies) and I am pretty much aware that NOT everyone enjoys tuning the same channel or songs. Always be considerate of others. (The situation is different when my children are with me...they will ask me why is the CD not been playing..the same songs over and over again).
Enough about the story-telling. Now here is the list.
- Assalamualaikum - Faizal Tahir
- Knock-knock - Elizabeth Tan
- Sejati- Faizal Tahir
- Photograph - Ed Sheeran
- A thousand years - Christina Perri
- Jar of Hearts - Christina Perri
- You and I both love - Jason Mraz
- Sugar - Maroon 5
- Senja Nan Merah - Awie and Ziana Zain
- ALL BSB albums! (cheating?? No..I love 'em all)
Friday, 5 August 2016
Five ways to win your heart.
To get into one's heart is to go through your inner-self and be true about it
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| credit to www.lovethispic.com |
How to win my heart?
- Be sincere. (Please be you all the time, regardless with who)
- Be funny (not ALL the time)
- Be kind and understanding.
- Be matured.
- Be a responsible person.
You will win not just one heart, but hearts of those who know you. Trust me.
Write something about yourself that makes you really proud of.
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| Credits from likesuccess.com for this image |
Hello again.
Something about myself that makes me really proud of is being 'me'.
As the eldest daughter in the family (just for the record we have an older brother), I have become a child which my mother can rely on. My brother seemed not to be around whenever my mother needs him most. Dad was always traveling while he was still a government officer. Eventually, when the male characters are not in the chapter most of the time, I would be the replacement. And I strongly feel the situations have created a strong positive characters in me.
I have become a very independent girl...so far, up to this day. I have a strong, very strong characters that nobody would believe my story. If I choose to tell. Fortunately, I like to keep it to myself.
Growing up with a missing male character has really made me realize that living my life is on my own. And everyone might agree with me.
Bottom-line, I am glad to be me. And I am proud to say I am a working mother and also a mother to my 2 beautiful children.
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